Okay I swear this time I'll lose my weight!! Going on from
This year I'll quit smoking for sure! 2005'ish something
This year I'll study hard and get a C! till
This year I'll organize myself---or err.or I'll be disorganized! 2012...
Okay I'll be honest, I mean how many times have we made resolutions like this and never actually did it...(uhem lemme count---freakin 300?! Okay I'm not even 300 but still)
Nowadays new year resolutions actually don't even matter to people anymore well 'cause theyre just useless and bad reminders..and really what's the point of making resolutions when you're gonna end up not doing it..
And sometimes we look at this way that we think we're going to bring so many changes to ourselves that in the end they are just too much to handle and sometimes even to the extent it becomes impossible and not only that they would make our lives a living hell rather than fixing your mistakes.
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And in most cases we even lose interest in them because we work so hard on the beginning that it becomes to difficult for us to actually cope up with it
The truth later on becomes that these goals don't become achievable at all and the year just passes like that--we lose the determination and the will we had before and end up the same again, so yeah in other words they become useless.
The only way to do it--is to have approachable and easy targets and to take baby steps at it, don't rush or stress yourselves at it keep it simple--and just do a little at a time but do it frequently and never overdo yourself 'cause you might would not want to end up like this..
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anyways hope you have an awesome new year